Yes Mistress. This is exatly how I see the as well Gor and SL.
We are not in the book, we are not book caracters, we are people approaching a same text with differents sensibilities as I guess we can suppose any Gorean person will do since they are before everything person.
What is for me a real pity is that I have seem so far Gorean people very tolerant and respectull. We are playing a dangerous game, base one love, hate, sumission, domintaion and the respect of players is very important and always has been. At the beginning when i start playing we were realy proud of that. Tolerance.
Now, I see these people as fanatic that does not respect the player anymore. Because I am a kajira they want to tell me how a kajira is. Most of them do not have any idea. They prefere discuss if city should have red silk or not, etc...these in my opinion are so stupid debates. that does not bring nothing to the game. What is important for the game is that players feels what they are. And this is what i always did. I have been kajira for long, probably from the book perspective i was realy bad, as En says, studborm, proud, selfish etc...but as a player and deeply as a kajira my objective was never to copy the book caracter but to bring satisfaction to my owner with my play. Book kajira are boring they can certainly knows all pages of the book that does not make the game. Kajira, in the book are human, with mind. spirit and body. They fear pain, the feel love, they feel hapiness and sadness. They can hate their owner or love it. Well i guess each one will be different since we are all different. In the book Norman caracter are ALWAYS NORMAN. Here we bring diversity as it is in a real word. Why do we want to make the thing less realistic ?
My only concern all the time when playing was my owner satisfaction. my satisfaction and if we can bring something to the global game, all this being respectul with the scenary of gor.
I think that does not make me supporter of high wheel sexy outlaw femeale for that. It is not because you do not venerate the Great Norman that you are in the other side. I wish a mouvement claiming player respect will exists, a movement they claim the right for any gorean player to take pleasure. acccepting thet each person is diferent and will act diferently in a fix and inflexible scenary called "GOR"